Hanging in there WP. I am still DBing. Ever read any of Gucci's stuff? I am finding his words to be more in tune to my sitch--I have tried the "being nice" and it doesn't get me anywhere.
But being tough and strong and not taking his BS? Has been getting me some very interesting results. And sometimes it's quite funny!
I do have to say though--a lot of the veterans think this really isn't a R to save. My H is just....spiritually he is bankrupt. He has always been moody and negative. Always benn hypercritical. Always filled with false pride. I wanted him bad when I first met him. I can't get up that kind of desire for him, and without it...I know I kept things together all these years and he was just along for the ride....
My dad died a 2 weeks ago. He wasn't great, but he wasn't too bad either. People just do their best I guess. This world is not perfect. The funeral was Sunday and someone came out of the woodwork and has expressed interest in me. I am floored, flattered, and repulsed all in the same instant.lol. But for once I thought....maybe there could be someone else that would be a better fit someday...
It's crazy, isn't it? Love your kids to pieces. Learn to text (that is coming next!!) It is wonderful to send my S a message any time I want to (and my H doesn't do texting!!lol. )
And no matter what--it doesn't hurt to leave them with a few truth darts to ponder....
