This a.m. was bad Dbing wise. Once again my H is taking my S to his parents--gives me like a day's notice that he's doing it. My S wanted to take his Gfather's golf clubs down to his other Gparents to show them to his cousin. My H is like, no, it's going to rain all weekend. I said "Let him take them down. I'd like them to know that his other Gparent did care about him and my family does NOT lie to me!" (He was CERTAIN that stepmother wasn't going to give them to him and would drop us from her life as soon as she was in North Carolina)
So he shot me a bird--made a bit deal of all the "gestures".
I know that showing strength is my only hope. I just get confused. Maybe it was good DBing on my part? Sometimes "love" doesn't look at all like "love". I re-read Gucci's statements about that again (back on pg 23? I think of my thread).
Anyway, I am alone for the weekend and the handyman may be dropping by.... But he is in the "repulsive" catagory now.lol. Thanks Pinhead for the "predator" image!!lol. I needed that!!
I am so glad you guys are here to talk to. What would I do if I was on my own....
