Just so I understand is "#948" the amount of times you have been bombed?
The word lead. Mostly All the advice on these boards is how to lead. Lead means that you must take your journey and "hope" your MLC'er will follow. Your MLC'er is not someone that you can control. We all know that.
You must trust that there are other "forces" at work that you can not see.
I see the stages as a training ground. Each stage plants the seed for growth down the road.
I say that detachment is the single most important thing that we as LBS must learn. Besides what that does for us early in the crisis it plants the seed for what you must do at the end. For at the end during reconnection you must learn how to reconnect and detach very quickly.
Reconnection for our MLC'er is accomplished first with things,then animals, kids, and FINALLY with us. Again a training process so that the crisis can be completed.
If it is derailed at any point we are sent back to relearn our lessons.
If the LBS remains undetached the MLC'er will smell that and test your resolve. You will be sent back again to relearn that lesson prolonging your MLC'er crisis.
This is what I mean by leading. I hope that is clearer.
