Every aspect of my life was literally up in the air when WH dropped the bomb and left me. I don't know how to build a life that I want on my own. I've never done it and don't know where to start.
I know what you mean. And can empathize on the feeling stuck, too. We went from home to our H's and now are left to our own devices and don't know how to cope.
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