You are an adult and as such no one is going to tell you if you are "allowed" to date. That being said, if you are standing for your marriage then I would say don't do it. I would also examine your motives for wanting to date ... are you just trying to prove to him that you are NOT "waiting for him"?
You don't need to verbalize your boundary with H. You can go no contact and then if/when he asks you, you can make the statement and leave it at that. Actions not words.
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
