How should I handle MLC direct lying?

[amg2]

Thank you WhatNow. If I go NC, do I quit returning all calls and texts? I mean, the words "no contact" seem pretty easy to understand. I'm definitely not doing this to get a rise out of him or punish him. I am upset now by MY FEELINGS of wanting OUT. OUUUUT.

So do I go NC and then say "I won't have a relationship with you unless..."? Or say it and then go NC?

I don't think he knows wht he wants D wise. But he definitely thinks I'm "waiting" for him, which drives me NUTS.

I know this is a dumb question, but asking anyway, am I allowed to date during any of this? Does anyone ever do that?

Thank you for your help.