Definitely positive signs today that he is warming up to me. I need to tell someone. After a day of no contact, he has contacted me several times today about things he didn't need to. He could have contacted any one of our colleagues instead. Had to stop at the house today to pick up some things. Had given him warning 2 days ago that I would be coming while he was at work. The funniest thing, still has me smiling, he made the bed. I'm sure that sounds stupid. But I know he made it knowing I would be coming over. He even put the little decorative pillows on. Despite his hard fast, "I won't change my mind" he can't help himself, he is still trying a little. I know this doesn't mean 'reconciliation' yet, I am just celebrating a small step.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."