A lead balloon...I ask you, is such a thing even possible? Btw, in the settlement you are insisting on maintaining custody of your penis, right? No joint custody or visitation for her either! Demand monthly Penis Support payments because your penis has the right to grow in the life style it had before the breakup. A lawyer could probably be more helpful here than I am, after all, I've heard them referred to as dickheads from time to time.