How should I handle MLC direct lying?

[amg2]

I don't feel like my H knows who he is at this point. I certainly don't know who he is. But the person he's ACTING like (which isn't who I think he is) is someone I certainly DON'T like. Someone I don't even want to hear from. Or see. Much less "be with".

Anyone else out there felt like I do? Like they never thought they would? DONE? FRIED? I texted H last night (suddenly and without much forthought) that I wanted him to sign over ownership of our house to me (he had said early on he'd do this). I see the house as a separate issue from D, but no one else I talk to does. At first he said he'd sign over the deed, then he backpedaled and started saying "we need to have an adult conversation" and that we needed to speak in person and that he didn't want to "get divorced by text".

I literally cannot stand the thought of having a serious conversation with him. I can't do it. I won't do it. There's been 8 months for that and he's had nothing to say. No reason to do it now.

Is this wrong? Bad? Advice?