I guess this is my first official day of getting my head out of my rear... I hope I don't slip as I think my time is limited. I work 3rd shift, went to bed today at 830a got up noonish, She is usually home then to put baby down and get ready for work. I saw she was on the couch watching TV and listening to her Iphone headphones. She looked sad, but all I said was, "oh I didn't know you were home", she didn't say anything. I hopped in the shower, got out and dressed then tried to appear upbeat and happy, kissed and played with baby a couple minutes and left. As I left I didn't want to seem too rude, so I just smiled and waved as if to say I was going. She said nothing. She hasn't been texting much, but when she does its usually just about kids. Today she texted to return a movie and later thanked me for doing so, I didn't respond. Her most recent text, she knew I was in car with kids and said, "Joey wanted to listen to music in van". ??? Of course I did not respond. To what extent do I respond regarding kids... I hate texting by the way, but would rather not talk now actually. Also she wants to proceed quickly through to divorce, saying she just wants to move on. Do I stall or just do it?
If she asks for a hug what do I say? Is being friends with or hanging with other women a no no?
