Yeah....I knew in my heart that doing anything other than leaving them when I move was wrong. But still...I get these wild notions that if I can just spark some kind of memory of the good times it will help turn him around. Glad I got reinforcement not to do something stupid-it helps a lot.
I would NEVER throw out Chuckies! I did throw out a lot of cards and letters from him though....seeing them is just so freaking painful, and after he told people that he didn't think he EVER loved me they just seem like so many lies. If I run across more I'll hide them in a box.
I love the humor on this thread. It's like a breath of fresh air!
M 45 H 44 no kids-one great dog M 15 yr in Oct T 18 yr Bomb 6/10 "I can't be your husband any more"