Change my mind about keeping the house, or change my mind about asking him to leave? The house is way too big for me-I couldn't even keep up with utilities on my own. I am seeing the light about asking him to leave though. It seems like letting go when we don't speak and rarely see each other. It didn't occur to me until Pearl said it that regardless of what he's thinking right now, every time he comes home and sees me here it reinforces the notion that I will always be around as a backup.
M 45 H 44 no kids-one great dog M 15 yr in Oct T 18 yr Bomb 6/10 "I can't be your husband any more"
