Hey PlanB,

It is never too late to get "unstuck". At least you know where you are and acknowledge it.....

I hear you saying to yourself

"What if I did this...."

"What if I did that...."

and at the end of those questions you are putting the same ending....

"maybe he would come back"

Ask yourself those same "What if's" but at the end of it start to put endings like.....

"I would be happy"
"I would have acheived a goal"
"I would ....
"I would....

Replace "he" with "I".....start asking yourself the things you want for YOU.

Then go out and do them and you will feel better about you.


Formerly "missherlove"

Me49 XW49
M17 T19
S16 D20

Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison