Keep in mind that filing is not the same as divorcing. At least she will know you are serious and she will have to get off the fence. Once she has to make some hard decisions she may get the 2x4 in the head that she needs.

You know that not filing will just drag out the misery - it sure won't put you on the road to reconciliation. It sounds like I'm advocating divorce, but I sure as hell can't say "just wait a couple of more months, IDU, and see what happens."

WAW Using God
Me-43
W-40
M-14
S-11
S-9
D-7
EABomb 5/09
Separated 12/09