She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[tbart01]

Hello everyone, I'm back with an update. Things have been really weird since the bottom fell out last time.

After my w changed her mind I felt that this was it. Some months ago I developed a friendship with a female and we talked everyday on the phone. I let my W know about this, and at first she had no issue.

However, the more she thought about it the more she began to dig and prod. I kept trying to hide specifics, but my w would keep catching me in lies.

Even though she was continuing to D me, she acted like I had done her wrong by having a relationship. Keep in mind my W and I have been separated for almost a year now.

We went back and forth for weeks about this. My W even called the girl and asked her to stop talking to me. Me and the friend stopped communicating. Then one day out of nowhere my cell phone rang while my W was standing over my shoulder. My W absolutely flipped out.

This started a huge fight that lasted for days. My W and kids had been staying with me because their mobile home was being moved. She decided she couldn't stay with me, so she went to her friends for a few days.

It got weird on our anniversary. I received a text that morning by her to come unlock my door. I opened the door and she was standing there. I laid down on the couch and she came and laid down next to me and put my arms around her.

This behavior went on everyday for the week. She would hug me, touch me, and kiss me. We even made love for the first time in almost a year.

She said afterwards that she felt like the other woman because I hadn't ended the friendship. I ended the friendship the next day,and I haven't spoke to the other woman since.

That day my W dropped the D, and told me she wants to take it slow. We still discuss the other relationship and live separate. I'm in no hurry to move back in, but it's all still so confusing.

It's puzzling how she can go from acting like she hates me, to laying down with me and dropping the D. We see each other everyday and things seem to be going well.

I have no idea how this will turn out, but it's a bigger step than any other we've had.