John, it's so obvious that that the only reason you're even contemplating two-timing the banker is to make some type of sick connection with your wife. It appears you'll hurt anyone and everyone to get close to a person that wants nothing to do with you. I mean really? What else could be accomplished by it?
YOU NEED REAL HELP! SHE CONTROLS YOU! AND YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW WHY!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012