Discussion of the LBS cycles

[Truegritter]

I think Trapt used up all his posts for the month!

I don't know where I am either. And I do cycle although not as often.

I find it comes when I get frustrated or have expectations.

I think the biggest part of it is realizing that you only control you

But then

The funny thing is after that feeling of helplessness of learning that or letting it go and grieving it...

It actually sets you free because you realize that you control everything

It's all you and how you let it affect you. It is you that makes the choices.

You choose to stand. Not for someone or what they choose. Until you choose.

I learn something new every day being here and I apply what I learn to living my daily life.

Life is all about US, and all ABOUT us. And when we finally start to look out beyond our beloved spouses and live, and be...

well then that is when we stand on the shoulders of the giants

who have come before us.

And we can finally see what this gift we have been given really is.

I wouldn't give up being the LBS for nothing.

I am not lost I am found. I am not left behind I have gone on ahead ...

to a much better place and I have hope that my W can share that joy someday.

But she is on her own path.

And that's just the way it works.