So you kept things above board which is good. I know it feels great to hear kind things from someone. Why do I keep thinking your step-mom would be so Po'ed if the two of you end up together?? LOL
Anyway back to now. No being with a married man but you know that and said it. Are you and your H really done? Even then until you work this all out for you, I wouldn't get too close to fire if you know what I mean. I also wouldn't let the possibility of someone new/old in your life cloud your vision. You are working within the walls of marriage, period.
big hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory