btw love that Sandi. awesome advice and one we can all use. i too was very close to ONS but didnt. W later found out, i evaded then finally admitted it and apologized. she continues to throw it in my face as reason for her A, although she either denies or admits to it very obliquely. : )
in essence the LBS needs to STFU about past and move forward. W refuses to talk A and when she does, uses it to bludgeon me as reason why "she did or didnt do it."
