I know most of you were the ones left behind and I have nothing but love for you guys. But I know for me, this is not an easy decision. This is by far the hardest thing I've ever faced. No amount of hostility, no amount of anger, no amount of abuse is worth the pain I feel like I'm bringing to my kids.
All I can say from my sich is this will hurt your kids more than you think. It has changed my kids and not for the better, Last Sunday my D10 sat in my lawyers and talked about all the bad things MOM has done she named all the OM mom has introduced them to. She blames her mom for tearing her family apart, all of my kids are young and they cry for me every night, they never cry for there mom. I have not tried to turn the kids against there mom she tried to turn them against me it backfired. The kids see much more than you think they see, and they will not see life from your point of view they view life from there eyes and there reality just may be 180 from yours if it is they will hold you responsible. This is the only good thing about being the LBH I am much closer to my kids now than I was and my WAW has damaged her relationship with our kids way worse than even she knows at this point. Can it be fixed? I don’t know, its not my problem to deal with its my WAW’s
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
