For today, I am not worried about my marriage at all...honestly.
and.........I am just being me and my life is no longer "on hold",
However....I do find myself "cycling" through these feelings.
I can relate to this right here. IMO it's the way we process, grieve and grow.
If we could tell what stage we were in and what stage they were in, if it where all clear, how much would we truly grow?
I mean, if we knew, we mostly likely would have any fear of the unknown then right? We would really have to face certain things throughout this if it was all easily labled and plain to see.
"Where am I"? "where are they"? "what exactly do you call this"? Is a natural thing to want to do.
If one were to have to have the answers to these questions or claim to.... would you say they were accepting and letting go? OR Would you say that they are still searching for something that is not really under their control?
