Not to be a thread hijacker, but I have an apparel question since you fellas are on the subject. I have been cleaning out the house and sorting things-came across the shoes H and I wore on our wedding day-we both wore black Chuck Taylors, and have since only worn them on our anniversary. Our anniversary is coming up in a few weeks. I have thoughts of putting them on his dresser as an anniversary 'present', but I suppose that would be akin to hauling out wedding photos. Still....we are both big Chuckie fans, and they are his. Just leave them in the closet when/if I move out?


M 45
H 44
no kids-one great dog
M 15 yr in Oct T 18 yr
Bomb 6/10 "I can't be your husband any more"