Punkin - I also find that less contact I have with H the less stress I'm under. It's the financial concerns that are on my mind more than what H is doing with OW...that I don't even care about anymore, accept where is affects business. Dating? Well it's been a year since the bomb and my heart still hurts...I'm not a good dating prospect for anyone yet.

Talked to a divorced friend of mine....told her that I'm worried if I would be ever able to love again like I did H (still do). She said that she felt like that for a long time....There was so much pain in her heart but eventually it healed and there was just emptiness left and that emptiness made room for new feelings for someone else.

Have a great weekend smile

Last edited by Mila; 09/24/10 06:21 PM.

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO