Discussion of the LBS cycles

[MHL]

I have to wonder, instead of worrying about being done or standing...

What if we were to just live?

For a while. Just live. With yourself.

For today, I am not worried about my marriage at all...honestly.

and.........I am just being me and my life is no longer "on hold",

However....I do find myself "cycling" through these feelings.

I guess the question is the cycling a movement through the stages, or part of the movement through the stages, or is it separate from the LBS journey?

Cadet,
I think you captured part of my ponderings right here.

I guess as much as we can identify what stage the MLCer is in, I find myself wondering where I am. I wonder just b/c in my journey I have become much more "aware" or "in-tune" with my feelings and I am trying to process them as they come down the pipe at me.