F - I understand your feelings completely. You are in a good place. Ofcourse you are going to jump at the chance to relive a moment with the woman you love. It's not flipflopping. You're on an emotional rollercoaster. Do you "play" strong and not go with her or do you seize the opportunity to spend time with the women you love? No Expectations. No pressure. No brainer to me. this is not making what she did ok. It's just spending time with the woman you STILL love.
Good Luck. PMA
Thanks PMA. You are living up to your name! That was the exact question I was asking myself. We only have one chance to relive that memory. After tomorrow, the pub is closed forever. My gut told me to take her out tonight. I think I've demonstrated to her that I will stand my ground (not going to Disneyworld, custody, etc). I do love her, but I've finally broken all my co-dependence. I don't NEED her. She has been treating me with respect and kindness, and I choose to reward that behavior.
