Yes, I need to stop trying to talk her out of it. It's controlling and she doesn't like it.

When I gave her that speech she thanked me for it. She became nice so I guess that was the part that worked. However, she still pushes for the D so I guess that part is the part that isn't working because I changed my position now and reached out to her to work on M.

No doubt when I pushed she pulled. That isn't working out so great.

The vets are right and I know it. Thanks Pookie.

By the way Pookie, I like your signature, "Recovering doormat". lol

Last edited by mza8; 09/24/10 05:40 PM.

M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch