I really don't concern myself with her seeing the OM. We're not in the process of reconciling, so it doesn't matter. If we agreed to attempt reconciliation, that would be a different matter.
I totally agree. You just have to be ready for all outcomes.
At this point, I agree filing is the right action regardless of outcome.
You just need to be ready for divorce and ready for teary-eyed reconciliation talk. Know what your conditions are and stick to your guns.
Why are you doing this to me?
You ended our marriage by moving out and sleeping with someone else. Divorce is the next step. What did you think would happen?
Why won't you get back together?
I will under one set of circumstances. Meet those and we're back together. Or don't meet them and we divorce because I want to. I don't want to be with someone who won't X, Y, Z.
SpinFree, there's a reckonin' comin'... (didn't realize that was a Tea Party thing; I meant it as a Young Guns quote, oops)
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