Mine gives me all of the reasons to D and I give her all of the reasons not to D.
Stop that immediately. Agree with her.
Originally Posted By: mza8
I did give her the "I agree with you and I'm letting go" speech a while ago. I know she probably didn't believe me. When I gave her that speech I actually meant it. When she recently starting acting nice towards me that's when I started to reach out to her again.
So what worked here and what did not?
Originally Posted By: mza8
My W seemed like she was starting to be friendlier to me and share more with me. I guess I wanted more and I pushed.
How did that work for you?
It is so counterintuitive to do what all the vets here keep repeating over and over, but it WORKS.
