Originally Posted By: sandi2
I think you are giving her signals that you are more than willing to work on the M if she would give it another chance. But, there's your problem....she's holding all the power in the R. She keeps you dangling at the end of the rope. you.


Exactly. Drop the rope and drop it for good.

Originally Posted By: Buffet
Another poster said recently "that you can only fake it until you make it for so long"


And this is so flippin' true.

You have to accept what has happened. Until you do that you cannot and will not move on.

You need to decide: do you want to stay like this or do you want to move on?

And if you choose to move on, you can get rid of that question mark at the end of your signature smile