Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

How do you think she would act if she was having second thoughts?
If you think the only reason she's being nice is to get something then you won't be able to tell if she's being nice b/c she's having second thoughts.
Keep an opened mind.

I hear you. I guess she might act the same way as she's acting recently. However, she still talks about D so I'm not sure she has any second thoughts.

I try to keep an open mind but when she still says she wants a D and has her lawyer send me a letter it's tough to keep an open mind.

This statement here shows you not ready to move on w/o her.
She knows you still waiting for her. Show(Lead) her to believe you deserve more from a R.

She said something to me on Tuesday that I deserve someone better. She said she can't give me what I want right now. She said she doesn't know how she would feel in three years. I told her that it's not right for her to tell me what I want. I told her that I'm willing to give her more time but I'm not waiting three years.

You have been here long anough to know that there will be back steps from a WAW.
So doesn't feel your changes are lasting. Turn your anger in leading.

Use a confident tone in your voice when you talk about L and D stuff.

Take this opportunity to lead her throught he D. It may be your last choice to show her.

True, I know they will take steps back. I forget this sometimes. I think the only thing I can continue to lead with now is taking care of the house. I'll leave it with my L to handle D.

Gr8, I'll contact you later in the alt.