So feeling a little pissy today, the waw has all 4 kids this weekend, and the plan is for her to take them to her home with the OM. This will be the first time my 2 oldest have spent any time with the OM. I know my kids will behave, secretly i wish they would be themselves and argue and fight like normal when with their mom, but my kids wont. They will be respectful, and i cant say i wont be proud of them. I am just pissy about it. Its been 6 months for petes sake, and she feels the need to let them see her in her new relationship in her new home. I guess im just not adjusting to that thought very well. It will be a long weekend.