Discussion of the LBS cycles

[MHL]

Grit,
I had not seen that from Lost.

As I have had a little more time to reflect this morning on this, I wonder about this part here.....

You will know at this point that the journey was beneficial for both parties as long as neither got tripped up in their respective journeys.

Given the time involved for MLC, and the journey that the MLCer really has to take, could it be that for the LBS to really move through these stages or to stop the cycling your MLC spouse has to come out of the "fog". Or put differently, how much of our journey is tied to theirs?

I am in no way suggesting that we are not on our own journey here, however as previously discussed on my thread my W is no where near done "cooking" probably just put in the oven based on some things in the past couple of weeks. So, I continue my stand and I find myself cycling in the stance so to speak, to use cadet's analogy, a plane circling the airport waiting for clearance to land.