Your therapist is not harsh she is Realistic. She gave you excellent advice.
Alot of men will be reading your thread, if we helped you would you be willing to help them?
So does that mean I should listen to her about not reading Divorce Remedy?
No. She's wrong. You may have seen Coach mention the Stockdale Paradox? That's how you should approach this and your therapist should know better. Many therapists have the strange notion that although a person's feelings towards their partner can change and become negative, it's impossible for those feelings to reverse themselves again.
Stockdale Paradox:
You must retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties.
AND at the same time…
You must confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
