Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Which comes from your thinking which drives your emotions which drives your actions.

Couldn't agree more. You're right, you're so very right Coach. It's tough for me to believe that me being positive will have any affect on her. I know MWD says that if one person changes in the R then the other person will change. I will get myself to be on such a good path for a while but then slip back when the hopelessness creeps back in.

Woman don't want their man to fix them or give a solution to their problems (even though that's how men deal with teach other). Just listen and be supportive. Her feelings are her feelings. No need to try and change them, they will change soon enough own their own.

Ok. When I talk to her and she starts going off about things I think to myself all of the good advice I've received here and how to handle things. I do pretty well for a while but sometimes my emotions still take over. I'm working very hard on getting better with that. Lots of work to do still.

It's still important that her and I keep in contact about the current house situation. I do need to contact her later today about some things. When I do should I apologize for my conversation last night and just leave it at that or not even apologize and just keep it about the house? I wouldn't bring up any R talk (I might be stupid but I'm not that stupid :))but it might be the right thing to do to just say that I'm sorry for last night and then drop it. Thoughts?