Basically it describes how people become depressed when they feel they have no control over the outcome of a situation. Describes me to a "T".
It's all over your writing. The "hopelessness" is in your words. Which comes from your thinking which drives your emotions which drives your actions.
Woman don't want their man to fix them or give a solution to their problems (even though that's how men deal with teach other). Just listen and be supportive. Her feelings are her feelings. No need to try and change them, they will change soon enough own their own.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.