My WAW had dinner with her parents last night to tell them what is going on with us - that she's not happy, plans on leaving, getting a D - the whole deal. I fully expected them to remain neutral, and basically support her.

She sent me a text last night that said that they did not take it very well, and she is going to stay at a hotel. She had originally planned to stay with them - at least that's what she told me and my S. Who knows what she really planned. But, I think it's likely that she ran right over to her EA OM and got support from him - maybe even stayed over there, although I really don't know if she has before or not - I certainly think she has.

I am going to the football game with my F-in-law on Sunday. So, I will find out more of what happened - at least from his perspective. I don't want to initiate any conversation with the in-laws or WAW now. I'm going to keep it cool, and act like it went as planned - unless one of them bring it up to me.

What I find interesting is that in many ways, she now will become more dependent on EA OM for support if her parents truly aren't happy with her decision.


Me: 46
WAW: 43
M: 8.5 yrs, T: 9.5 yrs
Best friends b4 marriage: 2 yrs
EA/PA: 8/10
Told me she doesn't love me anymore: 9/2/10
Kids: 2 stepdaughters: 17,15, Son: 6