Last night I asked her what she's afraid of by going to counseling
Please let this be this LAST time you bring up counseling.
From your post in the other forum you seemed to have a good talk with her the other day.
See may still, deep down, have feeling for you but they or being contrued b/c you keep making the same mistakes.
She did give you some feelings when she was crying. That was your opportunity to show her you are strong now.
Even though see was crying you could have comforted her by saying that everything will be just fine.
Try to be more recptive to cues like that.
Not to get you hopes up but I see she's not 100% sure of her decision.
What you need to do now is accept the D meetings and show confidence that you will be OK w/o her.
If you read my sitch, it wasn't until after we sat down to divide our assets that my W said she wanted to talk to me.
Show her happiness, and confidence.
Not anger and frustration. Be strong. Contact me on the alt later today.
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