OK, met with my therapist today. She told me to stop reading the "Remedy" and learn to accept that my husband is divorcing me. She told me to start packing my things. She was not as harsh as my post makes her sound, but she said I really need to focus on acceptance now. Like I said before, I don't know who to trust. I'm going to keep reading and applying the 7 steps anyway. I have read the list of 37 steps. I printed it off and I'm carrying it with me. I keep re-reading it. Thank you everyone for your advice and your take on my situation. Keep it coming. I need all the help I can get.