Who's the stubborn one? Can't you see how clingy, needy, and unattractive this is? How many people here have tried to get you to see things from our third party perspective? Your fear has held you back from letting go and it has cost you dearly. Do your work.
mza8, i totally agree w/ coach here.
In your post you sound so angry b/c she wouldn't see things your way.
My W saw how happy I was. She didn't expect me to do this well w/o her. Although I made plenty of mistakes, she has noticed my changes. Your W told you that too but as soon has she did some thing that wasn't the right thing in your mind, you got angry. You scared her away.
You never made her feel like she was losing YOU.
You're not getting it. You still feel pressure to work on M.
I think if you get D, then you will begin to feel better about yourself. That's when you will be doing the right things for you.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
