You are moving on. You aren't available. This causes her fear.
SpinFree
I guess this is the part of the WAW that I do not understand. The longer we are apart the better I feel. If she was detached when she filed why is time making her look back. I know this is the very foundation of DB but still do not understand how we could be moving in different directions. It just seems like time apart should have the same effect on both of us making both of us more detached. I have had several people comment on how bad my WAW is acting, but I look at it as a gift. Her behavior allowed me to detach faster than many of the threads I follow here and saved me from much of the rubber band emotions that seem so common with the WAW. I also think if my wife is taking a peak over her shoulder, that’s all it is. I’m 99% sure she is done with me which is OK because I pretty much feel the same way. Yes I still love her, but I am not a pile of dirt for her to crap on. I wish we would have had a different ending put in the game of life you must play the hand you draw.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
