No, I never agreed to sit down with her and her attorney. Her attorney sent me a letter yesterday asking me if I would be open to sitting down with her and W to discuss S agreement. W's lawyer said I could bring my lawyer to the meeting if I agreed to have a meeting.

There's no way I'm sitting down with them face to face, even with my attorney. I already know how that meeting would go. W would expect me to happily go along and agree to everything she wants but would balk at what I wanted. In our last two conversations my W is very concerned if I am going to seek alimony and what else I am going to do. She keeps asking me what my intentions are but I tell her that I will not discuss it with her...she will find out when she files.

Funny that in our big conversation this past Tuesday my W asked me if I thought she ever loved me. I thought about it for a minute and told her that I couldn't answer that question right now. She got upset and said that she did love me and wanted me to know that. I told her I have my doubts about that.

We'll see where things go from here. This could turn ugly or not. I will protect myself though.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch