Thanks - it is good advice. Just don't seem to be able to get through to my W.
And you're not GOING to be able to -- not for quite awhile yet. Not while she's carrying on an emotional affair.
YOU are going to have to be the one to lead your family, and to establish -- and ENFORCE -- your boundaries. It's now been ... how long? ... since you communicated a "I will not live in an open marriage/tolerate continued communication with this OM." And she's basically pissed on your boundary.
What have you done about it? What do you INTEND to do about it?
Every day that you allow this most major, over-arching boundary to be violated, unenforced, your wife loses more respect (therefore attraction, therefore LOVE) for you.
