John, I'm convinced that the vets will continue to post if they see even a glimmer of YOU changing YOUR sitch..
Just do it man! Stop engaging her and you'll be amazed at the results! Stop fueling the drama.
You know what to do. Do it!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012