Bobby ... if your wife is MLC nothing in this process is going to happen "soon". Setting yourself up with an expectation like that will lead you to getting hurt - over and over and over again.
Continue to focus on you and kids. Live YOUR life for you. Walk your journey and let your wife walk hers.
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc