Originally Posted By: ssmguy
Originally Posted By: dgtal
I this moment I'm trying romantic moments (she and me alone), candles, flowers, deserted beaches with white sand, vacation time in a cruise ship. All of the above, nothing seems to work as a magical switch. But instead I'm giving myself time (2 years at the best)to see results. I'm writing in my calendar the progress and it is worthy.


Good luck. I've been down that road.

Sometimes people just aren't interested in sex, and nothing we yet know about psychology or medicine could pinpoint the reason. It's not necessarily because she's angry, or anything specific. I've heard too many stories of women agonizing and searching for what's wrong with them, following misguided therapy advice, to no avail.

It's like asking, what's the REASON you aren't homosexual? Is it because you're angry? Surely a romantic cruise with someone of the same gender would make you want sex, right? Sometimes when you're not interested in sex, period, all these remedies are just annoying!


She's still not interested in sex, this is caos!!!!


Me:52
W:50
M:30
D:19S:27
Discovered EA:08/08 denied
W insisted on D+ILYBNILWY:08/08
Exposed wrong OMW:10/08
Found exact OM's ID 2/09
Expose OMW son, not sure OMW knows yet
25 months after still a rollercoaster