YAY! You are in piecing! And what is also funny is that for the first 1/2 (or 2/3) of your separation, when DBing said to not pressure your H about the status of your relationship, you did it anyway. When DBing said to not tell him what a jerk he was being you laid it all out for him. When DBing said to not pursue him, you did it (you were pregnant, though!)
But I remember that in the last 1/3, you started to "float" more, and subside on the stuff I mentioned. I am only recapping because all along, Babydoll, you were true to yourself and you trusted your instincts. I think you should share that with us a little bit! Why did you go against DBing? Was it because you were pregnant? What do you think helped to get your H to pursue you again?
I am very happy and hopeful for you!!!!!!!!!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004