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Why else would he "run away"?

because of greed. money. ego. pride. mom. dad.

that's why.
this m was never about love, commitment, trust, or friendship.
it was pure selfish greed on his part.
it was evident from day 1 of our marriage.

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A smart and strong girl knows what she wants.

i want to be happy.
i want to be self-sufficient financially.

on the married vs. right question.
i wanted to be married. but now i rather be right.
because i don't want to be married to a jerk.

if he sees the exact same thing, then why are we here?

i was livid at the end of my meeting. why?
because i was right all along.
h drags everyone on this wild goose chase .. and in the end, what happens? i'm still right.
he hates that i'm right. but i'm not going to bow down and say "yes, you're right .. 2+2 is 5. i was wrong."
it's simple math.

i'm silent because the ball is in my court.
no. i'm not going to meet with him.
i have some important decisions to make on my own.
it's too late to negotiate. he had his chance and he chose his own fate.
there are no second chances. it's too late.





Last edited by DumpedforMIL; 09/24/10 04:31 AM.