Well she deleted the message and did not respond; however, now we're surfing for "not attracted to my husband" and "how to find a mate after 40". This is the kind of stuff that's hard to endure but you almost have to if there is no transparency. So on the one hand she's "kept" her promise to not have contact outside the M while she stays here, on the other hand, she's definitely not thinking about R, at least not today.
Me-43 W-41 S-3 M- almost 7 W ONS affair - 8/9/10, confronted 8/30/10 Separation - Pending My sitch
