What about the NEW YOU?? The STRONG, CONFIDENT, ATTRACTIVE YOU?? That guys are lining up to date.
You don't think before you post, do you? I am sure that this is the last thing this guy wants : more guys stroking his wife's ego and fulfilling her fantasies. Wow.
This is an important thread. One that should be read and mimicked by many many many men and women on this site. When your spouse seeks emotional and physical "attention" from others, Set them Free. Let them go. Move on with your life and leave them to question what is really important in their lives and what they need to discover in order to love themselves and to love others.
Hanging in there, telling each other to set boundaries that you will not share your spouse with another WHILE THEY ARE LYING AND CHEATING AND SHARING THEMSELVES WITH OTHERS RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE is not even a boundary. It is a desperate attempt to avoid the obvious.
I have read 10, 15, 20 guys on this site over the past year whose wives behaved in this same manner who are still on this site and have made zero progress in reconciling their marital problems. All the while showing "unconditional love," analyzing every word and move they make while telling each other not to believe anything they say and half of what they do, thinking their 180s and GALs are working and telling themselves their spouses behavior is just script, as their chances grow slimmer and slimmer.
This post should be inspiration to many. Remember this is all very simple. If you are to have any chance to savage this marriage you need to stop YOUR needy behaviors as soon as possible. Acting desperate or needy is probably the MOST common mistake guys make in these situations.
NEXT. Take 30, 45 - 60 days of NO CONTACT. You have been dumped. It would be ridiculous to think your wife doesn't think you love her. She knows that. That is not the reason she left you. Take a month or two to better understand what "love" is by learning how to love yourself again and to decide if this is someone you really want to be involved with.
