Originally Posted By: BeTheMan

...I think it's time for an "all cards on the table" talk and then move on from there in one definite direction or the other.


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If she knew I have a date with a 25 year old this weekend she might not be calling......


It's hard to be congruent and straight with someone else if you're not congruent with yourself. One moment you want a "all cards on the table" talk and move on from there in one "definite direction" and the next day you have a date with a 25 year old.

Which is it?